So i took a twitter poll the other day and asked this question “Would women rather men to be blunt or slowly make his move”? 5 out of the 6 females who replied stated they would rather a guy be blunt with them. However, later that day i asked for a time limit on being blunt; no one replied.
The results had me thinking that being blunt is the best way to go , but I also noticed how women complain when a guy isn’t what they expected or finds out he just wants to *Hit and Quit*. My question is couldn’t this problem be avoided if you took time to get to know the person you are talking to? In the past, we built friendships first and then we made those friendships potential relationships. So why change? I know when you first meet someone you judge them based off physical appearance (everyone does it so do not deny it) guys we say: she bad as hell, ladies: you say he’s attractive or has potential and thats that. I feel like if we take our time to get to know someone a lot of things will be better.
Im not perfect, I have made my mistakes in the past. I have talked to some of the worst (attitude) females that have ever walked this earth, but I learn from my mistakes. My last questions to you are “Why do we keep repeating our mistakes?” and “Has being blunt transitioned to being stupid?”
Summer= Cutting Season
Fall= Choosin’ Season
Winter= Cuffin’ Season
What exactly does choosin’ include? That you have found someone that you want to be with after you have screened out all all of your other prospects? Another question would be why get chose when eventually you will get cut? I am cool with choosin’ and cuffin’ but I want something real not something by the season. Those who do are the reason why many relationships fail today. My question to ask has the basis of relationships changed from being together because its right to being together for the moment?
Sometimes I feel like i have a split personality or I live the life of two souls. Sometimes it feels as if i want to save the world and on other days I want to be the one who is reckless. I believe everyone has two sides and we cover up the other so we wont be inferior to our peers. Most people know me just as a humble individual. Others know I am deep as the Mariana Trench. Others may say I am wild. I offer the best of both worlds. My question to you is “Who are you”?